Men are constantly being told that if they want to have peace in their relationship they must allow their significant other to be “right” as they passively forfeit their voice.

If She’s Happy Then I’m Happy

Men think that if they’re always “wrong” it is somehow a noble sacrifice. Happiness in a relationship is not made at the expense of the other. Happiness is created when each partner has an equal voice, two-way communication, and feelings that are equally validated.

It’s Easier to Say, “You’re always right” Than It Is To Say, “I feel…”

In our society men are bashed for showing emotion and this stigma is carried into our personal relationships. Men prefer to sit silently than attempt to share their genuine feelings. When men submissively dismiss their feelings with the phrase “The woman’s always right” it is perpetuating the message that men’s feelings are not important in the relationship. This suppression results in apathy and can greatly limit men’s participation in significant relationship decisions.

It’s Not About Being Right

A relationship that tracks who is right and wrong is destined for failure. Couples find much greater satisfaction in being able to work together and collaborate to meet each other’s needs. It’s too easy to just say, “The woman’s always right” and much more difficult to actively listen, communicate, and participate in the relationship.